A lie told by those too ignorant to understand. Those of us with amazing internet friends know both the pleasure and heartache of friends you can’t reach out and touch.
Reblog if this is a lie and you have made amazing friends on the internet.
This is a lie.
(Source: dirtyevilminded, via kryten2x4b)
Ok, I saw this and immediately thought of those Demotivators that start with “In Soviet Russia…” and this one finishes with “Pussy licks YOU” and I amuse myself.. as usual. sigh. (if only I could be truly funny)
LOL!
(via kryten2x4b)
Past relationships lead to traumas and tabus.
Like my friend who thought that his girlfriend didn´t want to suck his dick because it must be really disgusting. Whoa - so many girls out there we fucking love sucking dicks. Excuse my language.
The same with personalities and bodies. Things a past partner thought it was a flaw may be a virtue for another person. This is as true as beer with lemon is great.
I remember when I was working in my last company. People there were very unite, as a team. One of the girls didn´t like me because a comment I said about a nonsense. So she talked the others about not liking me. And as a result I was quite alone.
I told my now exboyfriend about this and he told me that I should be more friendly and be more positive. So I began a plan to get accepted.
I did so well that I became one of the center girls of the group. That girl became my bestfriend. I was faking I liked that but I hated their things, they were really bad people.
Then a girl arrived. After a couple of days she came to me and said: “Why do you go with that girl? Sorry to say that but you are nice and she is a whore in the worst way.” I opened my eyes.
So I began to spend more time with this girl. I could be myself and she was herself too. The girl of the group realized that we were getting best friends and got so angry that she tried to put everyone against me.
The result was that my new friend and I became very popular, suddenly the group began to be themselves. Before that, they all were after the rules of the group.
I don´t know why I am talking about this.
One opinion for people who have been dumped or have broken up a relationship recently or who have been rejected in anyway: (and sorry for my English)
Usually we have a level of self love and self respect that is more or less constant during time.
But when we fall in love we do two things: first, we expose ourselves to others, taking the risk, hoping that we will be loved no matter our flaws and problems. Second, we focus too much on the feedback we get from the others, we focus less on our everyday life and activities and goals on life.
So when we get rejected or hurt: we don´t filter bad opinions or hurting rejections, these get straight to our selfsteem. As we are focusing a lot on these people´s opinions, we lost perspective, we no longer realize that our lives are full of many, many things apart from these people we love. We forget about our activities and our lives. We feel that these people knew all about ourselves and knew the real truth.
As a conclusion, our level of selfsteem and self respect falls dramatically. Our fears come alive. Like our fear of being ugly or bad or not a good company or a failure in life or a small thing in the universe.
Fight to get out of that shit and let your selfsteem and respect get high again. It will do it anyway, but fight so it happens faster. Do the things you used to do again. That´s that. Remember that this is a dramatic moment. The emptyness moment. Don´t forget that a lot of people out there need you.
People need people, remember that. You won´t get lost as a nobody.
(Source: bartonesque, via newwavefeminism)
My best friend was dating a guy.
She used to cry every weekend. Every weekend.
We were so tired of hearing about their discussions and her tragic stories about how this guy was not good at all… my other best friend and I hated him after hearing all the sad moments between my friend and him.
And then he broke up with her and she was devastated. The thing evolved this way: she said that they were a perfect match and soulmates and after half a year she has not lost hope of going out with him again.
I said: “OK, listen, don´t you remember all the bad and sad stuff you used to tell us about him? Your relantionship was not perfect at all! At all!! You were unhappy all the time you dated him” and she was not able to remember, apparently.
Yeah, nice, the truth is that a partner, even your soul mate, makes you cry from time to time. Don´t make me talk about lack of freedom, hurting opinions, discussions, big differences… sorry but relationships are dirty. Love may be a pure thing but relationships are not, sorry to say that.
I mean, I have not been really hurt in the past, nor I´m afraid of love. Not at all. I was very happy with my exboyfriends. It´s just an opinion.
WTF??
Don´t do it, kitty cat.
It is so great being single. I would tell why but I´m too tired of partying all day long during my vacations and doing what I want to do 24x7.
